为此你不得不成为一个演员

106.122.251.61 106.122.251.127 106.122.251.190 106.122.251.253
106.122.251.23 106.122.251.89 106.122.251.152 106.122.251.215
106.122.251.40 106.122.251.106 106.122.251.169 106.122.251.232
106.122.251.39 106.122.251.105 106.122.251.168 106.122.251.231
106.122.251.9 106.122.251.75 106.122.251.138 106.122.251.201
106.122.251.17 106.122.251.83 106.122.251.146 106.122.251.209
106.122.251.38 106.122.251.104 106.122.251.167 106.122.251.230
  很多人被迫被卷入主流社交媒体。正如当年精英人士们都喜欢使用MSN，结果因为工作伙伴和周围的人都用了QQ，就被迫改用QQ。（当然，MSN产品本身很烂）但社交网络与传统工具应用不同的是，人一旦太多，产品体验就会下降。而在目前，这种矛盾还无法克服。知乎大V的逃离就是一个例子。

主流社交平台让交朋友这件事情失去了界限。就像在一个KTV唱歌，泰州高防服务器本来是三五个好朋友的私密聚会，唱得好好的，突然朋友带来了几个不认识的人，这时候你唱得没那么嗨了。又进来一批呢？压根就不想唱了，没劲，坐在旁边看别人唱。
106.122.251.50 106.122.251.116 106.122.251.179 106.122.251.242
106.122.251.53 106.122.251.119 106.122.251.182 106.122.251.245
106.122.251.18 106.122.251.84 106.122.251.147 106.122.251.210
106.122.251.28 106.122.251.94 106.122.251.157 106.122.251.220
106.122.251.25 106.122.251.91 106.122.251.154 106.122.251.217
106.122.251.22 106.122.251.88 106.122.251.151 106.122.251.214
106.122.251.24 106.122.251.90 106.122.251.153 106.122.251.216
106.122.251.49 106.122.251.115 106.122.251.178 106.122.251.241
  逃离只能一种暂时的逃离，或者转移社交媒体阵地来进行自我调节。面对人际交往过密的状况，人类的社交心理自清能力正在起作用。
106.122.251.8 106.122.251.74 106.122.251.137 106.122.251.200
106.122.251.6 106.122.251.72 106.122.251.135 106.122.251.198
106.122.251.4 106.122.251.70 106.122.251.133 106.122.251.196
106.122.251.10 106.122.251.76 106.122.251.139 106.122.251.202
106.122.251.59 106.122.251.125 106.122.251.188 106.122.251.251
106.122.251.42 106.122.251.108 106.122.251.171 106.122.251.234
106.122.251.7 106.122.251.73 106.122.251.136 106.122.251.199
106.122.251.14 106.122.251.80 106.122.251.143 106.122.251.206
106.122.251.48 106.122.251.114 106.122.251.177 106.122.251.240
  腾讯核心创始人Tony，在谈到设计产品时的信仰，说最难的是克制和敬畏心。那么社交呢？是不是也需要克制？
106.122.251.45 106.122.251.111 106.122.251.174 106.122.251.237
106.122.251.27 106.122.251.93 106.122.251.156 106.122.251.219
106.122.251.29 106.122.251.95 106.122.251.158 106.122.251.221
106.122.251.2 106.122.251.68 106.122.251.131 106.122.251.194
106.122.251.62 106.122.251.128 106.122.251.191 106.122.251.254
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106.122.251.57 106.122.251.123 106.122.251.186 106.122.251.249
106.122.251.11 106.122.251.77 106.122.251.140 106.122.251.203
106.122.251.58 106.122.251.124 106.122.251.187 106.122.251.250
106.122.251.43 106.122.251.109 106.122.251.172 106.122.251.235
  但人类还无法真的完全逃离主流社交媒体。尽管很多人宣称逃离，很多人在烦躁，但从数据上看，主流社交媒体的用户数量还是在增长。
106.122.251.13 106.122.251.79 106.122.251.142 106.122.251.205
  为什么主流社交媒体越来越让人不快乐了？原因就在这里，人和人的社交，是有接触距离和接触规模限制的。
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  而这形成了一个悖论：主流社交媒体的发展逻辑就是要不断吸引更多的人。它鼓励人们不断卷入朋友、亲人和陌生人，突破150人的社交上限。
106.122.251.44 106.122.251.110 106.122.251.173 106.122.251.236
106.122.251.55 106.122.251.121 106.122.251.184 106.122.251.247
106.122.251.54 106.122.251.120 106.122.251.183 106.122.251.246
106.122.251.21 106.122.251.87 106.122.251.150 106.122.251.213
  所谓的逃离，其实正是短暂的心理调节行为。就像人们从压力巨大的城市去往大理、丽江、西藏这样的地方旅行，大多数人只是想要透透气，并不会真的就不回来了。
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106.122.251.47 106.122.251.113 106.122.251.176 106.122.251.239
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106.122.251.60 106.122.251.126 106.122.251.189 106.122.251.252
106.122.251.20 106.122.251.86 106.122.251.149 106.122.251.212
106.122.251.52 106.122.251.118 106.122.251.181 106.122.251.244
106.122.251.34 106.122.251.100 106.122.251.163 106.122.251.226
106.122.251.3 106.122.251.69 106.122.251.132 106.122.251.195
106.122.251.12 106.122.251.78 106.122.251.141 106.122.251.204
106.122.251.63 106.122.251.129 106.122.251.192 106.122.251.255

106.122.251.16 106.122.251.82 106.122.251.145 106.122.251.208
106.122.251.33 106.122.251.99 106.122.251.162 106.122.251.225
106.122.251.30 106.122.251.96 106.122.251.159 106.122.251.222
106.122.251.32 106.122.251.98 106.122.251.161 106.122.251.224
106.122.251.1 106.122.251.67 106.122.251.130 106.122.251.193

106.122.251.56 106.122.251.122 106.122.251.185 106.122.251.248
  所谓逃离主流社交媒体，也是一样，其实只是去别的平台的一场旅行。人们聚高防服务器租用集于主流社交媒体，跟聚集大城市一样，总体仍然是不可逆的趋势。
106.122.251.26 106.122.251.92 106.122.251.155 106.122.251.218
106.122.251.46 106.122.251.112 106.122.251.175 106.122.251.238
106.122.251.31 106.122.251.97 106.122.251.160 106.122.251.223
  现在的主流社交平台的设计，就是把人聚拢在一个列车里，逼着他们往紊乱泰州服务器租用尴尬压力的方向走。吃喝拉撒工作全在里面，还要被认识的不认识的熟的不熟的围观。为此你不得不成为一个演员，重新包装自己的同时，还要看别人的拙劣表演。这显然并不是个舒服的社交方式。虽然人们可以见到更多人，更多事了，但也触碰到了社交心理的极限。
  人类的社交心理决定了，人类社交行为不能过度交叉。当工作生活问题集合在一个社交场景中，就会导致过度压力，让人心理失衡。
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